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Business Meeting
Hello, Better Together Family!
Please join us on first Sunday each month,
(second if first is a holiday weekend)
Better Together Virtual Intergroup Business Meeting.
See below for the next months agenda, and last months minutes.
Any motions to be voted on at this upcoming meeting are included in the minutes for your review before attending.
You must be present to again read your motion prior to vote.
Please also consider joining us before the meeting as the officers and committee chairs meet to brainstorm and discuss intergroup business and speaker meeting business.
Business Meeting BTVIG
Meeting ID: 558 759 5395
Passcode: family
A Note from the
Better Together Intergroup Chair:
Hey Better Together
A note from the chair…
September 2025
Hey Better Together
Tis I…
Russell W…
Chair of Better Together Virtual Intergroup…
Looking forward to seeing everyone at the retreat 😬
Premeeting Chair and Officer Agenda
Sunday September 7, 2025
6:00 PM ETOfficers and Committee Chairs BTVIG/Working Group to Brainstorm
Together:
Starting at 6:00 PM Eastern Time
(5 CT – 4 MT - 3 PT) via Zoom @ Meeting ID: 558 759 5395 PW: family
The business meeting will follow a working session of the officers and any of the
committee chairs. The meeting is open to everyone but as it is a working session the
discussion will be with the officers and chairs only. This means that the zoom room will
open at 6pm eastern. If time is left… open questions will be allowed.
I look forward to seeing you.
Topics: taking all hands
Co-host switch at 10pm?
Discuss the numbers that are being collected.
- average end time
Issues from Committee Chairs:
What dates for Service Saturday Service Saturday (Intergroup) works the rest of the
year.
-Open Forum:
Explanation of the Officer Terms: As per the by-laws Section 5 - Term of Office
A. Board members shall be elected to serve for a period of two years.
1) On even-numbered years the chair and secretary shall be elected. On odd-numbered years the
vice chair and treasurer shall be elected.
2) Newly elected officers shall begin service at the Intergroup meeting following their election.
B. Board members shall serve no more than two consecutive terms in the same office.
C. After an interval of two years, a member may again be eligible for election to their prior office.
D. Upon election to the board, members shall cease to be a representative of their group they
represent, and that group shall choose a new IR.
The Better Together Virtual Intergroup Business Meeting
Start Time: 7:00 PM Eastern End Time: 8:15 or earlier by motion
Meeting to be held virtually via Zoom @ Meeting ID: 558 759 5395 PW: family
Better Together Virtual Intergroup (BTVIG) Business Meeting First Sunday each month
(Second if first is a holiday weekend) Room Opens at 6 PM (CT)Chairperson: Russell W Term: 1/2025 - 12/2026 Secretary: Catherine P.
Term: 1/2025 - 12/2026
Vice Chairperson: Lori D Treasurer: Carla C.
Term: 1/2023 - 12/2025 Term: 1/2024 - 12/2025
Business Meeting Agenda
Sunday September 7, 2025
7:00 PM ET
via Zoom @ Meeting ID: 558 759 5395 PW: family
Welcoming:(Start recording and AI)
Chairperson: Russell W
Opening Prayer:
God set aside everything we think we know about
our higher power, about ourselves, about this
intergroup, and our own recovery so we may have
an open mind and a new experience with all these
things. Please help us see the truth.
Minutes: Reading / Waiver of Reading / Motion to Approve
Secretary: Catherine P.
Reports from Officers:
Lori D
- Vice Chairperson
Catherine P - Secretary
Carla C
- - Treasurer
BTVIG Committee Chair Reports and
Data Tech
Data tech - Matthew B.
Lori
-Host / Co-host
Matthew B -Zoom Service Training
Sonya P.
-Member Contact list
Michelle B -Newsletter
Meeting to be held virtually via Zoom @ Meeting ID: 558 759 5395 PW: family
Better Together Virtual Intergroup (BTVIG) Business Meeting First Sunday each month
(Second if first is a holiday weekend) Room Opens at 6 PM (CT)Kelly M
-Welcome Committee
Christine G - Speaker Seekers
Lori -Workshops
Open -Sponsorship Committee
Annie -
-No Disruptions
Russell -Facebook: Admins: Kimmy H, Lori D, Russell W, Jenni R, Rena S
BTVIG Meeting Delegates:
- Newcomer Meeting Rep
* World Service- Mary Helen
Mary Helen- Virtual Region Delegate
Mary Helen- World Service Office Delegate exp 2025
World Services and or Regional Visitors:
Ongoing business to review
*It is the group’s conscience as per a previous motion approved by group
conscience:
When a motion is to be voted on the Chair seeks 3 members to speak in
favor “pro” and 3 members to speak not in favor “con” on the motion with
one min each to present their views. When these 6 members have finished
presenting their views there is no other discussion to be taken the motion
is to be voted on.
New business:
Call for any new business:
Retreat information - update
Any member in the zoom BM zoom room can bring up new business, to be
considered in the meeting. Make a motion, ask a question, begin a conversation
about this BTVIG Intergroup
Your voice is welcome, this is your business meeting!
What’s on your mind
End meeting motion
Serenity Prayer:
Meeting to be held virtually via Zoom @ Meeting ID: 558 759 5395 PW: family
Better Together Virtual Intergroup (BTVIG) Business Meeting First Sunday each month
(Second if first is a holiday weekend) Room Opens at 6 PM (CT)God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot
change, courage to change the things I can, and the
wisdom to know the difference.
Close Meeting
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Robert's Rules Hints:
What does Point of Order mean?
In parliamentary procedure, a point of order occurs when someone draws attention to a rule
violation in a meeting of a deliberative assembly.
(deliberative = relating to or intended for consideration or discussion)
The BTVIG Business is a deliberative assembly.
What does making a motion mean?
Motions are statements that describe a proposed action or decision. Although the formality of
Robert's Rules can seem cumbersome, the process of making motions ensures that no decision is
accepted without the opportunity for discussion and a vote.
How to introduce a motion, you would say,
“I move that … followed by a statement of the proposal.”
The motion is not discussed until it has been seconded by someone. Purpose of requiring a
seconding of a motion is to confirm that more than one member of the assembly wishes to discuss
it. No second, no motion.
Note:
*It is this group's conscience as per the BTVIG policy and Bylaws that motions are approved by
group conscience, and to be voted on the month after the motion was presented.
When a motion is to be voted on, the person who made the motion must be present and state it
again without changes. I
The Chair will then seek,
3 members to speak in favor “pro”
3 members to speak not in favor “con”
on the motion with one min each to present their views.
When these 6 members have finished presenting their views there is no other discussion to be taken
and the motion is to be voted on.
Meeting to be held virtually via Zoom @ Meeting ID: 558 759 5395 PW: family
Better Together Virtual Intergroup (BTVIG) Business Meeting First Sunday each month
(Second if first is a holiday weekend) Room Opens at 6 PM (CT)
The Better Together Virtual Intergroup Business Meeting
Sunday, August 3, 2025 7:00 PM ET
Chairperson: Russell W Term: 1/2024 - 12/2026 Vice Chairperson: Lori D Term: 1/2023 -
12/2025 Secretary: Catherine P. Term: 1/2024 - 12/2026 Treasurer: Carla C Term: 1/2023 -
12/2025
Business Meeting Agenda
Welcoming: Chairperson Russel W. opened the meeting at 7pm
Attendance – Russell W, Carla C, Lori D, Matthew B
Minutes and Secretary's Report
Catherine P. explained the delay in posting the previous month’s minutes and shared that she
plans to use Google AI, with Matthew’s help, to speed up the process going forward.
Reports from Officers and Delegates
Chair:
Russell noted concerns about meeting shares running over time and will refer this to the
service committees for feedback.
Vice Chair:
Lori reported that the recent service fair had low attendance but did result in a few new
volunteers.
Treasurer:
TREASURER REPORT FOR July 2025
$10,384.39 Retreat Fund
$10,382.74 Operations
NET WORTH: $22,188.26
DONATIONS:
$388.00 Venmo
$100.00 US Bank$15.00 Paypal
STARTING BALANCE: $22,085.90
PAYPAL: 4 Retreat Reg = $855.15
EXPENSES: $502.89
Zoom = ($93.58)
Postage = ($3.30)
iPostal = ($14.99)
iPostal Mailbox= ($14.99)
Postage = ($4.66)
Calendly Renewal = ($121.20)
Signup Genius Annual = ($107.89)
Apple/Calendly App = ($1.00)
Retreat Supplies = ($601.89)
Retreat Hotel Deposit = ($2000)
Retreat Refund = ($370.16)
· The Chase account is fully closed, and Zelle is now in use.
· She proposed catching up on World Service Business Conference funding with a $2,652
contribution.
· World Service: $495 and Virtual Region: $2,324 donations will be made.
· No motion was needed as these were within standard operations.
BTVIG Committee Chair Reports:
Data Tech Matthew B - via Lori D.
Matthew’s updates included:
· Working on a secure online contact list.
· Implementing 2-factor authentication for all committee accounts.
· Emphasis on not resetting passwords independently.
· The team remains available for Zoom and tech support.Contact List Sonya P
Sonya acknowledged committee members facing personal challenges and thanked the
co-hosts keeping things running. She put out a strong call for new volunteers and
emphasized how easy it is to get trained. She also plans to connect with Matthew to
streamline the contact list.
Newsletter - Michelle B
Michelle shared she’s behind due to illness but expects to catch up within a week. She gained a
new committee member from the service fair.
Welcome Committee – Kelly M.
Kelly said the committee is doing well but lost a few newcomer callers. She invited others to
volunteer by phone. Otherwise, everything is stable.
Workshops – Lori D.
Plans are underway for the October Relapse and Recovery workshop. Help is welcome, and the
committee is also supporting retreat planning.
Newcomer Meeting – Jen V.
Jen reported steady newcomer attendance (3–5 per meeting). There's a pending motion to
change the script format for the last week of the month.
Sponsorship Committee
Joannie has been compiling resources in the whatsapp for people to look at.
No Disruptions Annie C.
Annie not present.
Sign up Genius Jen V.
She's working with Matthew on sending SignUpGenius email reminders and plans to monitor
the email frequency to avoid overwhelming recipients.
Facebook Kimmy H/Rena/Lori D/Russell/Jenni R and Rina S are admins
A post requesting personal donations was removed, and a warning was issued. Russell
encouraged members to report any inappropriate posts directly to him via WhatsApp.You cannot find the Facebook group – it is a super secret hidden Facebook group that you need
to be invited to. You need to friend Lori or Russell or any of the admins – she is putting
instructions in the meeting chat on what to do. They do vet people and that is why they keep it
close, that’s the only way to keep it hidden and protect anonymity. If you have a different name
on Facebook let them know because they will not be certain that it is you. There have been bots
recently so they are being extra careful. They err on the side of security because they want to
protect it. Lori adds that if you have shut down your Facebook page and restarted and only have
a very few friends, because otherwise if they see that they will think your page was hacked and
won’t friend you. Lots of interaction there and a good place for recovery.
If you’re not in the Facebook group and you want to be, contact Russ or Lori and they will add
you in.
Virtual Region Delegate and World Service Delegate Maryhelen
Maryhelen reported on a workshop series and relayed a request from World Service for
each intergroup to create a "People Committee" focused on public information and
professional outreach.
A discussion followed:
· Russell suggested adding a call for volunteers in the next newsletter and his chair’s
message.
· Jen proposed combining smaller committees into cross-functional teams to improve
efficiency.
· Carla shared her experience running a people committee in Oklahoma and suggested
increasing public visibility through social media or print materials.
· Maryhelen shared her past involvement with face-to-face outreach and emphasized the
importance of exploring virtual alternatives. She also mentioned the Bylaws Committee is
awaiting final member reviews and will meet soon.
Retreat Update – Russell
Retreat planning is progressing well. Supplies are ordered, most deposits are complete, and
excitement is building. There have been no major surprises.
Russell W.: Okay. So, no ongoing business. Moving into new business now. Let’s talk about
retreat information.
The retreat is going well. We’re getting ready to do the final push to get everything finalized. The
schedule and times are really starting to come together, and I think everybody's getting excited.
A lot of the supplies have already been ordered, and we’re nearly finished with the deposits and
other financial commitments. Everything is coming together nicely.
It’s been exciting doing this for the first time—this is a new venture for us. We’re learning as we
go, but so far, thankfully, no major surprises. Knock on wood. So that’s been a wonderful thing.
Does anyone else have new business to bring forward?New Business:
Maryhelen S-G: Yes, as I briefly mentioned, both World Service and our regional level are now
asking all intergroups to establish a “People” committee—this covers public information and
professional outreach. I’d like to ask the Board what they think about forming such a committee
and whether we might be able to find volunteers for it.
Russell W.: Okay. That sounds doable. How about this—could you write something up for the
Newsletter? We’ll send it to Michelle and I’ll also include it in the “Message from the Chair.
” We’ll
put out a call for volunteers to help organize a “People” committee, and we can also bring it up
during the Afterglow. Sound okay?
Maryhelen S-G: Yeah, that works for me. I’m good with anything that gets thrown at me right
now.
Russell W.: Great. Jen?
Jen V.: Going along with that, I know each committee has a specific purpose, but would it make
sense to consider merging some of them—make them more cross-functional? Like, rather than
separate chairs for each group, maybe one team handles multiple related tasks. It might give
things a better chance of getting done if there's a little more overlap and support.
Russell W.: That's a good point. Let's take a closer look at that during next month’s
pre-business meeting. We can brainstorm a few solutions and see what sticks. Carla?
CarlaC-OK: So I’m actually the People Chair for my local intergroup in Oklahoma. I moved here
from California, where OA is widely known. Here, it’s different—at a recent fair booth, people
asked if we were like Alcoholics Anonymous. A lot of folks just don’t know what OA is.
I looked it up and apparently OA is the third largest anonymous program in the world. That’s
pretty amazing. We get over 100 people at meetings some nights—so we’re doing something
right. But still, there’s room to grow.
Things like a public-facing Facebook page or a stronger web presence could help people find us
more easily. We could also print business cards for members to give to their doctors or
therapists. There's a lot we could do.
Russell W.: Absolutely, and we are doing some of that. For the retreat, we’re handing out
materials that members can give to professionals—doctors, therapists, etc.
—so we’re on the
same page there.
CarlaC-OK: Awesome. Love it.
Russell W.: Maryhelen?
IGOR and PIPO:
Maryhelen S-G: Yes—my experience with the People Committee includes face-to-face
outreach like attending health fairs. Even here in the Tampa/St. Pete area, where OA is fairly
well known, people still ask “What is this?” and how they can refer patients.
One of our most impactful events was at St. Pete Pride, which is one of the biggest events in
Florida. Tons of people came up to our booth—some had heard of OA, others hadn't. That
in-person engagement really made a difference.
Now, with more virtual focus, World and Regional Services are exploring how to adapt that
outreach online. We could look into offering workshops or webinars they’ve developed.Also, Russ—we didn’t cover Bylaws yet.
Russell W.: Right, thank you for catching that. Please go ahead.
ByLaws:
Maryhelen S-G: The Bylaws Committee has reviewed the updated bylaws and we’re waiting on
a few final confirmations from members. Once we have those, we’ll try to schedule a virtual
meeting. So far, I haven’t received any major concerns, but we still need to meet as a group
before finalizing anything.
Russell W.: Got it. Thanks again. Too many committees indeed!
Russell W.: Okay, is there any other new business before we adjourn? Any motions?
Maryhelen S-G: I motion to end today’s meeting.
Russell W.: Thank you, Maryhelen. Motion to adjourn at 7:28 PM Eastern. Do I have a second?
Sonya P.: Second.
Lori D., Chicago: I second the motion.
Russell W.: Thank you. All in favor, please raise your digital hand.
[Hands raised – 9 out of 11 attendees]
Maryhelen makes a motion to adjourn Sonya P. seconds motion passes 9/11.
Close with Serenity prayer. Meeting adjourned.
Note:
*It is this groups conscience as per the BTVIG policy and Bylaws that motions are approved by
group conscience, and to be voted on the month after the motion was presented.
When a motion is to be voted on, the person who made the motion must be present and state it
again without changes.
The Chair will then seek,
3 members to speak in favor “pro”
3 members to speak not in favor “con”
on the motion with one min each to present their views.
When these 6 members have finished presenting their views there is no other discussion to be
taken and the motion is to be voted on.
Meeting to be held virtually via Zoom @ Meeting ID: 558 759 5395 PW: family Better Together Virtual
Intergroup (BTVIG) Business Meeting First Sunday each month (Second if first is a holiday weekend)
Room Opens at 6 PM (CT)
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